One of the major unspoken problem that some of the people face is being ignored in a group setting. The group setting can be your friend circle, society circle, community circle, office circle or any type of social grouping that happen in our life.
What does that lead to? A constant feeling of lowness & defeated, embarrassment, trying hard to prove that you belong to the circle or getting excited at a prospect of slight chance of participating in the group discussions/activities etc.
And what is the outcome of this? Loss of confidence, Depression, loss of focus, boredom & curiosity as to what must be happening behind your back or what the hell are reasons for being ignored.
You must have been ignored at several junctures i.e. during group meetups, not being responded to in the messaging groups, not being looped in the plans, calls or not being invited during any hangouts.
Not being asked for opinion or your opinion not being taken seriously is another indication of being ignored or sidelined.
So why does it happen? It is because 60-70% of people who:- Do not value straightforward people, who do not value people who can't crack jokes, who do not value people who cannot talk exciting stories or talk wittily, who do not value people who talk nicely & decently, who do not value people who talk eccentrically, who do not value people who give only information, who do not value people who are not loud, who do not value people who do not look strong & mature, who do not value people who do not play politics, who do not value people who look weak, who do not value people who do not have full families, who do not value people who display lack of money, who do not value people who are tube lights, who do not value people who just blabber & are not crisp & sharp, who do not value people who are back stabbed by other cunning people, who do not accept not so logical mind of yours & do not value things as is.
So who is bad or not right? Its certainly not you but they (the 60-70% of the people). This set of human race (The 60-70% people) are yet to evolve in the human evolutionary journey and be in a position to take a stand of what is right, what is ok and what is wrong.
So instead of dipping into depression, kick them out of your life.
It is OK not to be a part of one or several circles, it is OK to miss out something, it is All OK to have no friend or well wisher. But it is NOT OK to dislike yourself or unfriend yourself.
You can be all with yourself. Do not blame yourself for the misdeeds of others.
You are your greatest friend, You are the circle, don't ignore yourself & yes Be Good & Be Nice because you have already evolved in the human evolutionary curve.